11 March, 2009

Let's read!!



It's never too early to turn your child on to books. Kids can learn to love reading even before they know how to read. Here are 19 ways to make reading fun for your preschooler.


Because children learn in different ways, we've arranged these activities by learning style. But any child can benefit from the suggestions in all three categories.

For physical learners

Make an alphabet poster

Draw each letter, then go through magazines and catalogs and cut out pictures of things that begin with each letter and glue them onto poster board. This is a great hands-on way to learn the alphabet.

  • Go to story time at the library or a bookstore

Nothing beats listening to a trained storyteller — especially one who gets the audience up out of their seats and acting out part of the story. Going to the library or a bookstore to listen to a tall tale is a fun outing for a preschooler. As a bonus, you may pick up a few tips to jazz up your own read-aloud sessions.

Play dress-up and act out a book

Dressing up like the characters in your child's favorite book can really bring reading to life. You can invite some of your child's friends over and make it a playdate.

Make finger puppets to go with a story
Cut the fingers off some old gloves and then use fabric markers to draw the characters on together. You can also roll felt or paper for the body and then glue eyes, noses, smiles, and hair on them. If your art skills could use some work, make color copies from the book, then cut out the characters' faces and glue them onto the glove fingers or rolled paper or felt. Once you make the puppets, you and your child can use them to help tell a story.

Build a reading fort
In your child's bedroom, lean together some broom or mop sticks and drape blankets over them to create a tent. Grab a book and a flashlight and climb in with your child for story time in the dark. Your child's probably too young to read along, but he'll enjoy flipping through the pages, holding the flashlight, and looking at pictures. One caution: Keep the stories light and fun. This is no time for anything scary or serious.

Serve a meal from a book
Use food coloring to make green eggs and ham, try to recreate parts of the Grinch's Christmas feast, or make your own batch of porridge for the Three Little Bears. You can even get a basket and fill it with goodies for Little Red Riding Hood to take to Grandmother's house.

Have a reading picnic
Take your favorite food and your favorite books to the park. You'll reinforce the idea that reading can be fun anywhere.

Throw a book-related party
Read over your child's favorite book and think about what elements would work at a party. Can you decorate his room in a jungle theme to resemble Where the Wild Things Are? Can you collect hats and host a Cat-in-the-Hat party (Dr. Seuss's birthday is March 2. Why not celebrate?)? You'll get your child and his friends talking about books.

For auditory learners

Listen to books on tape
You can check out tapes from the library for free or buy them at a bookstore (to save money, stop by your local used bookstore). Kids love listening to someone else tell them a story, and they can follow along in their own books.

Sing a book instead of reading it
Preschoolers love to make up little songs and memorize them. You can make this game even more fun by altering your own singing voice — try to mimic an opera singer or a country star. You'll both end up in a giggle pile.

For visual learners

Read a story that's out as a movie
Then go see the movie. Your child will love seeing characters he already knows from a storybook up on the big screen. You can rent videos too.

Make a blank counting or alphabet book
Staple together some plain white or light-colored paper. Put a number or letter on each page and ask your child to draw a corresponding picture. Or make an alphabet book in which each page shows one letter of your child's name. Ask your child to make drawings of things that begin with each letter.


Turn a book into art
Make a color copy of your child's favorite picture in a book and frame it for her bedroom, or have it put on a shirt at a T-shirt shop.

Buy a big book
Teaching supply stores sell giant books for teachers to use in the classroom. They're great for group reads because all the kids can see the pictures, but your child will love the huge oversized pictures in your one-on-one story time, too.

Illustrate a song
Write down the words to your child's favorite song and, with your child, draw pictures to go with each stanza. Then read the song together.

Set a family reading time
For 15 or 20 minutes a night, everyone in the house reads a story together. If friends or neighbors are visiting, ask them to participate. Show your child that reading is fun for the whole family.

Write a book of "my favorite things"
Staple together ten blank pages and ask your child to think of that many favorite things. Help with ideas. What's your favorite food? Who is your best friend? What is your favorite book? Write one thing on each page and have your child draw a picture to go with it.

Start a new reading ritual
Think of new ways you can add reading into your day together. Ideas to try: read a book at breakfast, or in the bathtub. Try reading your child awake, rather than to bed at night. Altering when you read will make reading spontaneous and fun and you'll encourage your child to read whenever and wherever he's in the mood.

HOPE IT WORKS!!

10 March, 2009

Doa for you..


Ya Allah,

The lady reading this(sorry guys!)
is beautiful, classy and

strong, and I
love her.

Help her live her life to the fullest.

Please promote her and cause her to excel above her expectations.

Help her shine in the darkest places where it is impossible to love.

Protect her at
all times, lift her up when she needs you the most,

and

let her know when she walks with you,

She will
always be safe.
Amin Ya Rabbal Alamin
Love you
Now you're on the clock !!!!

In 9 minutes something will make you happy. ;-)

But you have to tell 9 sisters you love them, including me. Go!!!!



09 March, 2009

letter to all hubbies out there!!


a good friend of mine sent me this..tq mr speed..

teringat pasal satu story...seorang lelaki balik rumah...dia jadi hairan
giler..halaman rumah berselerak.. surat di peti pos tak berambil,anak-
anak tengah main korek-korek tanah kotor, baju compang camping, penuh dengan tanah dan kotoran rambut tak bersikat, tak bermandi,;;; masuk ke pintu rumah, lagi lelaki tu terkejut...ruang tamu lagi teruk berselerak
lelaki itu melaung nama isterinya... .sepi tiada jawapan masuk ke dapur..sinki penuh dengan pinggan mangkuk tidak berbasuh,periuk tidak bercuci.
mencari apa yang boleh dimakan tetapi tiada makanan yang dimasak
masuk ke bilik air, baju masih belum berbasuh,apatah lagi berendam
lelaki itu cemas mencari isterinya..dia bergegas ke tingkat atas, melihat
isterinya terbaring di atas katil sedang membaca buku.."awak sakit
ke?"..tanya lelaki itu.. "tak lah", jawab isterinya ringkas
"kenapa teruk sangat rumah kita hari ni", tanya si suami lagi sambil
meletakkan tangan di dahi isterinya, kot-kot isterinya demam.... balas
isterinya "wahai suamiku, semalam semasa kita bertengkar, abg
mengatakan yang saya ini hanyalah seorang suri rumah, duduk di rumah
tidak sepenat diri abg yang duduk di pejabat, dan abg sering menanyakan apa kerja yang saya lakukan di rumah yang menyebabkan saya merungut kepenatan kadang-kadang. ....NAH, HARI INI SAYA TIDAK MELAKUKAN KERJA-KERJA YANG BIASA SAYA LAKUKAN SETIAP HARI.......
"Wanita adalah insan istimewa, biarkan mereka terus membebel,merengek
atau mengilai seperti pontianak . Seburuk-buruk perangai wanita, ia akan terus melekat di hati kita selagi hayat di kandung badan...
Best baca sampai abis!!!. It's true.
To share..Dari Ilham seorang lelaki..
As for me is different, if my wife is not at home, rumah boleh jadik
porak peranda. Memang true, jika isteri ada dirumah, kepala slalu
pening.Pantang kalau isteri ada kat rumah and i'm off duty, sure at times boleh membuat kepala berserabut. Kalau madame takde kat rumah, alangkah tenteramnya hidup ini. Boleh buat apa yang kita suka. Boleh belengkar kat depan TV tanpa sebarang gangguan mental dah fizikal. Pendek kata,FreeeDoMmmmm lah!!

But hairan bin ajaib, when dia betul-betul pergi meaning "She's Gone",aku
pulak terasa separuh mati. Sehari dua memanglah shiookkkk, no once
shouting from the kitchen for help, no one to komen this and that, no one
to criticise. Everything will be smooth... Tapi, masuk hari ketiga, I
felt something is missing. Lebih-lebih lagi bila tuala mandi dah berbau
'assshheemmmm' , tak tahu mana nak carik yang baru. Colgate gigi dah
abis,tak tahu kat mana dia stock up. Air suam dah abis, malas nak boil...Masuk hari ke-4, rindu mula terasa. Eventhough kat office, ramai yang cun melecun, wajahnya yang dah ditatap sejak tarikh bernikah itu juga yang mengetuk pintu hati. Memang lah dia tak se-cun SITI NURHALIZA but the smile yang ikhlas,forever melekat kat hati and sukar ada pengganti.
Apabila rindu mencengkam, semuanya jadi tak tentu arah. Tengok TV citer
best pun jadik tak best.
Nasik bungkus faberite jadik tak faberite. Makan kat 5 star hotel jadik
rasa cam makan kat kedai AA. Lebih-lebih lagi bila laundry basket dah makin bertimbun ngan baju kotor, fresh sluar dalam pun dah abis utk dipakai.
Toilet dah mula licin berdaki...lantai dah berbelak, tak dimop...Every nite,very the lonely, baring atas katil nengok ceiling blindly.... bila lonely gini, baru lah rasa benar kesepian. Jangan kata sebulan atau setahun....belum seminggu isteri takde kat rumah, aku dah terasa separuh pengsan.


Bila bersendirian begini,dan terasa malam begitu dingin, barulah kita
sedar betapa pentingnya seorang wanita bernama isteri...begitulah isteri kita rasa bila kita tinggalkan dia sendiri malam2 agaknya ya..

So guys out there... jgn buli isteri anda. Kalau boleh, tolong dia buat
kerja rumah. Bukan dok depan TV every weekend baca paper. Diaorang bukan maid tau! Kan dia tu isteri tercinta n best fren yang sanggup buat ape aje.. ..
tapi ramai juga hubbies yang mmg rajin..emm,,bagusla,,keep up with the good work!!




08 March, 2009

what's on TV??



i found this article..read on..


TV-watching guidelines for toddlers


Limit the amount of TV your toddler watches

If your child is under age 2, it's best to keep TV-watching to a bare minimum. If you choose to allow some television, break it up into 15-minute increments. Much more than that, and your toddler's brain can shift to autopilot.

Once your child hits 2, limit his total viewing time to an hour a day — even that amount is a lot for an active toddler. You should also keep the television out of your child's bedroom and turned off during meal times.

Watch programs, not television

Rather than sitting down to watch whatever happens to be on, carefully select the program your toddler's going to watch, and turn off the set when that program is over. Record programs ahead of time, if possible, so your child can watch what you want, when you want.

A two-minute warning that a show (or the segment of it that you're letting your toddler watch) is about to end will help him transition to the next activity.

Choose calm, quiet programs

Slower-paced viewing gives your toddler time to think about what he's watching and absorb the information. Lots of action and quickly changing images will only confuse him or make his eyes glaze over.

Some research suggests that children who watch violence on TV are more likely to display aggressive behavior. Stay away from scary shows, too. Instead, choose simple programs that emphasize interactivity. The best shows are those that inspire your child to makes sounds, say words, sing, and dance.

Watch with your toddler

A recent study looked at three groups: children with unlimited access to television, children with moderate access to television who watched without parents, and children with moderate access to television who watched with a parent.

The last group scored significantly higher academically than the other groups. Just being there says to your child, "What you do is important to me."

Of course, many of us have moments when we resort to using television or a video as a babysitter, but when you leave your child alone with the TV for a long time, you send a signal that you don't care what he watches. If you can, bring a basket of laundry to sort or some other task into the room so you can work and watch. Then it becomes an activity the two of you can enjoy together.

Help your toddler watch with a critical eye

Explain what's going on in the show, and encourage your child to ask questions and relate what's happening in the show to his own life. If you've recorded the show or are watching a video or DVD, press the pause button as often as you need to so that you have ample time to discuss what's going on.

If you're watching a recorded TV show, you'll probably want to fast-forward through the commercials. If you're stuck watching commercials, help your toddler understand the difference between those and the show itself.

Extend the show's content with activities or books

If you and your toddler have just finished watching a Sesame Street segment that introduces a number, talk about it later and find other examples to show him. When you're setting the table, for example, you might say, "Hey, today's number was three, and there are three places to set!" Then read and discuss a book that explores numbers concepts.



These recommendations were developed with the help of Kathleen Acord, project supervisor for KQED television's "Ready to Learn," a national government-sponsored program that educates parents and childcare providers about how to use television as a learning tool.


06 March, 2009

Juz hanging out!!


Today,i 'm at my parents house,went back here yesterday..spend the weekend here la.luckily i got the chance to write this post..hehe!!hubby gi kuala berang for kursus kejurulatihan pusat ko for three days started yerterday.my papa flew off this morning to sarawak for 4 dayz on biz trip.so,tinggal myself,syahmi,mama n adik jer.Angah maybe balik from KL tonite..lepas kerja ptg ni,fly over to KT.aku tak der nak wat per..juz hanging out..coz dah penat working..heheh!!

For tomorrow,will be visiting kak su,my ex colleague who gave birth to a cute bb girl last december.then maybe off to pizza hut,celebrating angah's belated bday.it's been ages tak makan pizza.SO..let's pizza!!


adik loves taking pic of his lovely nephew..


at my parents'


sengih sokmo!!

03 March, 2009

Sorry..


Sorry..kalu aku emotional the other day.Yerla siap type dgn warna merah lagi.aku ni kawan yang jahat ke?No,i dont think i am.aku sedih kawan baik aku buat aku macam ni.Bukan kwan biaser but bestfriends!!juz imagine..kwan aku ni tak pernah tanya ttg aku n aper aku buat dgn hidup aku sejak dia dapat anak no 2.kalu ada pun..tah biler aku pun tak ingat.Skang anak dia dah besar,same age as Syahmi Mukhriz.Yang aku ingat,dia akan sms or call aku kalu ada hal yang melibatkan diri dia..for her sake.aku ni care sgt kat dia tapi dia dah berubah..Don't know what went wrong..n i'm still trying to figure it out.n until today aku tak wish bday dia.tahla,aku dah tawar hati but deep inside i still care n keep thinking about her selalu..


p/s:biarla aku rahsiakan nama kawan aku ni..

01 March, 2009

It's heartbreaking..



Today is a special day..it is somebody's b'day..but still i don't feel like wishing her..coz she is no longer care about me..why should i'm the one terhegeh2 ingat n still remember her b'day!what the heck?(aku tiru ayat dude)..but deep inside i do want to wish her but i couldn't.i felt so leftout n she doesn't need me anymore.we used to be best friends since maktab lagi..i do cherish our friendship n all the things we've been through..tapi nampaknya dia tak kisah pun pasal aku..tak tanya khabar aku,anak aku n how my life is!!Ya,people changed.she has changed..i need to make some changes too.i have decided to get rid her out of my life..bunyi cam serius.mmg serius.kalu dia nak kawan dgn aku then dia kena pujuk aku.hahaha!!aku mmg ske berkawan tapi kalu org dah tak kisah aku bleh carik kawan lain..but not to worry coz i have sarah,dude,bujee,tok der,kak ayu,kak suria,kak maznah,kak k.liza..korang la kawan aku..tq..
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